Dating and Marriage Abroad: Should You Marry Someone From Home or Abroad?
Marry from home, marry someone in the diaspora, or marry outside your culture? It is one of the hottest debates among Africans abroad. What do you think, and why?
Tokunbo Central’s answer: the community is divided, but some practical points come up often.
- Shared values matter more than location: faith, money habits, children, family obligations and where you want to live long-term.
- Marrying from home: can mean shared culture, but also long-distance periods, visa processes and adjustment for the spouse who relocates.
- Marrying in the diaspora: partners often understand both cultures and the realities of life abroad.
- Intercultural marriage: works well with open conversations about family expectations, traditions and raising children.
- Be careful online: romance and visa-marriage scams are common. Meet in person and take your time.
- Talk about money early: including black tax and supporting families.
Your turn: where did you meet your partner, and what advice would you give someone still searching?
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