Tokunbo Central
Tokunbo CentralOP·5 days agoBest answer

Tokunbo Central’s answer: the community is divided, but some practical points come up often.

  • Shared values matter more than location: faith, money habits, children, family obligations and where you want to live long-term.
  • Marrying from home: can mean shared culture, but also long-distance periods, visa processes and adjustment for the spouse who relocates.
  • Marrying in the diaspora: partners often understand both cultures and the realities of life abroad.
  • Intercultural marriage: works well with open conversations about family expectations, traditions and raising children.
  • Be careful online: romance and visa-marriage scams are common. Meet in person and take your time.
  • Talk about money early: including black tax and supporting families.

Your turn: where did you meet your partner, and what advice would you give someone still searching?

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